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| HELP ME! |  Anonymous writes: I need help urgently..because time is ticking..
The love of my life is home for 10 days, because he just graduated from Basic Training. We've been "best friends" since last October, and I love him so much. He's always given me the same vibe, but we've never hooked up. His ex is still in love with him, and I think hes starting to fall back in love with her.
I've heard that they've even still been having sex...
I have to break that sh*t up!!
Hes the one for me, and he just doesnt realize it yet. I think hes only tolerating her, because she keeps throwing guilt trips on him, and beggin to get back, and being so persostant..and she does whatever he wants for his approval..like a puppy..
I dont want to have to do that...I just want him to fall in love with me..and noticed how much he needs me..
I'm scared that if I try to make a move on him, that he'll turn me into his "***** buddy"...and thats not what I want. I wanna have a serious relationship with him.
Help me..I'll do whatever it takes..
BFS:
Just because he's "even been having sex" with her doesn't mean he's falling back in love with her. There's a pretty good chance the main reason he's back with her is the easy sex. Having said that, if you don't want to be a f*ck buddy, then don't f*ck him. You can do anything else but you'll have to keep him wanting until he breaks up with her. Show him a good time and be what she is not. A puppy can get old pretty quick (unless he is come kind of control freak) so he probably needs a break from bitch. Be fun... contradict him in a playful teasing way... and of course the "accidental touch" always works like a charm.
| Posted by bfs on Sunday, 18 September 2005 (23:04:58) UTC (6429 reads)
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| go back out with him | Anonymous writes: Ok my x-boyfriends asked me if i would go back out with him and i said yes. But my friend likes him and she was goin to go out with him. But he said he still likes me . Now my friends and him are going out but he still says that he likes me what should i do to get him back even though he likes her.
BFS:
OK, here's what you do: forget about him. You don't love him. Move on. You'll find someone much better and you'll be much happier and have more fun. Trust me.
| Posted by bfs on Friday, 16 September 2005 (22:30:24) UTC (4725 reads)
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| Two Can Play that game | Anonymous writes: Okay so this is funny. This guy he will remain nameless. He has a gf, and i've been putting moves on him. Everything's been going well, and he seems attached to me. He's giving signs that he's interested. He'll flirt, call me, and even *the other he kissed me! and he has a gf... Well, now he's basically becoming one of the "playas" type. He's like playing around, and hes playing a game. I know it, the thing is. This is fun and I dont care. I just want some advice on to how to be ON TOP of the game?
BFS:
Hey girl, you've got your heart in exactly the right place. You wanna be on top? Flirt with him and then play hard to get. Flirt with other guys in front of his face. You'll drive him crazy!!
| Posted by bfs on Friday, 16 September 2005 (22:28:14) UTC (5986 reads)
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| Last story | Anonymous writes: I was wondering where the girl lives who had a break with her boyfriend. I think I know you I think I talk to you about that guy.I like you alot if its you, you should know who i am by now does Chicago,"Trip with School" mean anything to you just say yes or no.Or is his name Cris
P.S. Please post this I have been trying to get a hold of her for a long time and it would help me alot.
| Posted by bfs on Friday, 16 September 2005 (22:18:50) UTC (7948 reads)
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| BOOM I GOTCHA BOYFRIEND | Anonymous writes: Well i supposee what i did was mean, but i am glad i did it.
This girl was a ***** to me like constantly putting me down all through my first years of high school. When i became a senior i seemed to "transform" from an ugly duckling into a swan. And i swore revenge on that *****...
At a party i met this guy who was gorgous like drop dead gorgous. We got along really well, and swapped numbers etc. I later found out he had a girlfreind..which i didnt mind because we could still be friends. But then FATE... the girlfriend turned out to be that ***** from high school!!! So my chance came... while watching movies at my house quiet night in for that gorgous boy and i... i had my chance and i kissed him. Turns out he had liked me for a while to but didn't think i was interested. So we are now together and have been for the last 10 months.
I can still remeber the look on that girls face when i saw her the next day... and i had to bite my tongue...cos all i was thinking was BOOM I GOT YOUR BOYFRIEND!
BFS:
Only one thing to say: You go girl!!
| Posted by bfs on Friday, 09 September 2005 (18:22:32) UTC (4077 reads)
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| capital B.I.T.C.H. | Anonymous writes: I went out with this kid and then he cheated on me so we cooled it for a while. We decided later that we would try going out again but then when me and my friend went to the pool and he met her he thought she was the hottest person in like the entire world. She fooled everyone and said that she hated him but that pissed him off but when they found out that they liked eachother they wanted to go out the only problem was my friend wouldn't talk to the guy so everyone was obsessing over her and trying to get her to talk to him...it was the most annoying thing in the entire world. He asked her out after knowing her for like 2 days. She said yes and then she still wouldn't talk to him. She is still trying to get all the attention. She goes to the pool as much as she can and drags me along so then i have to sit there doing nothing why they talk and kiss and try to make out even though they suck. Like i said she fakes like she is pissed just so everyone will focus on her and she fakes like she gets hurt so everyone will focus on her. When i got pissed at my ex-boyfriend for all that he was doing he didn't understand why and would always ask are you pissed. (NO...i mean are you really that stupid isn't it obvious, yeah i'm pissed...at you  ) It makes me sick. 
| Posted by bfs on Sunday, 04 September 2005 (15:17:00) UTC (2926 reads)
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| How to be a 'Dream girlfriend'? | Anonymous writes: My boyfriend and I have had our ups and downs. Recently he confessed how he feels and how he said that he wishes I was like the way I used to be in the beginning. The thing was that before I was completely devoted in love. He was my everything... the problem was that he didn't appreciate it and he (for some weird reason) said we needed a break. So I figured that maybe me acting like that didn't really help; so i stopped. We took a one day break and now I've still been attached, but not like before. Last Thursday he said how he wants me to be the thing that occupies him the most and how he was stupid for ever wanting a break ( the break really confused me and hurt me a lot) I told him this. That i gave my everything and I was hurt. He told me that he doesn't understand why he didn't appreciate me back then, but now for sure he will. I said I'll take a chance and he replied it's not even a chance it's for sure. He told me to look in his eyes and see if he it seemed as if he was not being serious and i could tell he was being dead serious. he said that i might not believe it so that he'll have to prove it as time goes by. He said he was emotionally attached, the thing is that he's an off and on person... i really want to go back the way I used to be, but i kinda forgot... I remember briefly, but I'm really scared of putting my all in again and being hurt again... AND i wonder what he means by ' the way i used to be '... was it me being open; romantic; treated him like my everything?... I'm really confused, help please
Playa responds:
To be blunt, break up with this guy. You're not in love with him and he's probably not in love with you. The guy is confused about things so don't let him get you confused. Relationships never stay the same. The "new love buzz" wears off and it's all but impossible to get back. You need to find someone who is more mature who understands this.
| Posted by bfs on Sunday, 13 February 2005 (21:03:43) UTC (4398 reads)
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| Get him begging for more | Anonymous writes: How do I get my boyfriend to be completely 'sprung' by me. That all he'll think about is me and that he'll feel I'm the one. That he'll be completely happy and that he'll brag about me to his friends and everyone? 
Playa responds:
1. Be nice, playful, supportive and don't give him shit.
2. Give him great blowjobs.
3. Give him surprises and leave him wanting more.
| Posted by bfs on Sunday, 13 February 2005 (20:35:06) UTC (13265 reads)
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